Shared experiences help build bridges between communities, says expert
By SUNDER KATWALA, Director, British Future May 31, 2023
THE Chelsea Flower Show hosted its first wedding this year.
Having designed the Garden of Unity for Eastern Eye and the Royal Horticultural Society, Manoj Malde married his partner, Clive Gillmor amidst its bright orange and pink marigolds, its array of vegetables, fruit and diya oil lamps, intended as a celebration - for gardening can bring people, cultures and traditions together - and of the community gardens which do that across the country.
I visited the flower show for the first time this year to see the garden being opened. The partnership forms one of part of the Royal Horticultural Society’s effort to increase its reach across British society and to promote horticulture for everyone, everywhere. Happily, there was very little sense at the Garden of Unity launch that British Asians would assume that gardening is ‘not for them’.
In our cultural and social lives, we sometimes inherit practices and traditions in our families which influence whether or how we do or do not engage with faith institutions, our local sports teams, or cultural institutions. – but or we might not. Building sustained relationships will take time, but we should not underestimate the simple power of being invited to participate can provide an important first step.
This year’s census results show why every institution in Britain needs to find the confidence to engage with Britain’s growing diversity if we are to unlock the opportunities of our society’s growing diversity for the benefit of all. Yet such efforts can also become a source of internal anxiety among institutions and sectors not sure how to make progress on building new relationships, or why good intentions with the desire to welcome everybody who walks through the door have not seen yet seen so much progress in practice.
So anxious conversations about a lack of minority presence is rooted in a ‘deficit model’, sometimes generating broad and somewhat simplistic anecdotal generalisations about what people from black, Asian or mixed race backgrounds will or won’t find relevant to them. Efforts to increase and broaden reach are much more likely to generate contention and negative headlines if there is, implicitly or explicitly, a somewhat zero-sum mindset, that whatever it is that appeals to current and traditional audiences might need to be diluted or ditched to modernise and to appeal to new ones.
In my new book, How to be a patriot I set out why I think it is a mistake to think that we make identity and culture more inclusive by thinning or taking things out. Rather we should continue to celebrate many things that we can cherish from our past and present, from language and literature to local identity and a sense of place, and use the power of attraction to those who become British to shape shared rituals, moments and experiences that we can share today.
The positive symbolism of the garden of unity had echoes of the efforts in this year’s Coronation, with its effort to bridge and balance a thousand years of Christian Coronation tradition with the King’s commitment to recognising the multi–faith pluralism of Britain today. How can these symbolic commitments to good relations help to generate practical commitments for sustained work on realising that vision on the ground?
Sunder Katwala
That requires a cross-society response, though governments could play a crucial role in putting some of the essential foundations for inclusion and connection in place. Without universal fluency in a shared language for everybody who settles here, efforts at meaningful contact and connection can not get started.
Where schools in diverse towns are mixed, rather than segregated, we are much more likely to realise the benefits of contact from an early age, rather than needing efforts to ensure that children do have meaningful contact across ethnic, faith and class divides. Local partnerships can play a crucial part in whether there are places that we meet and mix, or whether those that used to exist are lost when there is sharp pressure on public finances, nationally and locally.
Part of the purpose and point of civic society is to mediate social relationships, yet this is much more difficult if civic organisations lack the relationships and reach to reduce a sense of social distance across divides of education, geography and social class as by ethnicity and faith.
Can a message of unity help us to navigate the sharper edges of more difficult conversations too? There are many bridgers within and across every majority and minority group but that can be a harder message to mobilise compared to those with the simpler task of voicing the aspirations, anxieties and sometimes grievances of any specific group.
The welcome message of the garden of unity should challenge us all to do more of the spadework that could better realise its vision too.
Diwali is a time to celebrate the light that shines within our communities — the light of kindness, service and hope. As families and communities across my constituency in Brent and around the world come together to celebrate this special festival, I want to send my warmest wishes to everyone marking Diwali.
The Festival of Lights reminds us of the triumph of light over darkness, good over evil and knowledge over ignorance; values that resonate far beyond any one faith. It is a celebration of renewal, hope and unity. Those are qualities our community in Brent embodies every day and ones the world needs to draw on in these difficult times.
Here in Brent, we are home to some of the UK’s most vibrant record breaking and award winning Hindu temples, mandirs and cultural centres. I am so proud to represent Brent East, which includes, BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir in Neasden, Shree Swaminarayan Mandir Kingsbury and Shree Swaminarayan Temple Willesden.
These are places not only of worship, but where people of all backgrounds can come together in the spirit of friendship and shared celebration.
Each temple contributes immensely to our borough’s social fabric. The temples regularly host blood donation sessions open to the public. All are involved in some way in uplifting our community through outreach work including food banks and charity work.
This list is by no means exhaustive, and I want to sincerely thank all the temples across my constituency for the incredible work they do to support our community throughout the year. Their compassion and commitment to service are a shining example of Diwali’s true message.
Brent’s greatest strength lies in its diversity. It is one of the most diverse constituencies in the country, with 150 languages spoken throughout the borough. Many languages but one voice. Diwali reminds us how much we gain from coming together and learning from one another’s traditions and celebrations. Multiculturalism means there are different cultures in one wonderful melting pot that makes us uniquely British.
I take great pride in seeing the growth and contribution of all our diverse communities, including those who have made Britain their home and helped shape its modern identity. The success of our Hindu community in Brent, London and across the country is a powerful reflection of that shared journey.
Together, we show that when people from different backgrounds come together in mutual respect and celebration, we all grow stronger as a nation.
It has been a privilege to join local Diwali events over the years — from the fireworks displays to the beautiful Annakoot offerings and the warm gatherings at our temples.
I have always believed that in Brent our unity is our strength, that’s why my office mantra is: “Our community is our strength.” At a time when the world can often feel unstable, Diwali reminds us of the enduring power of compassion, generosity and community spirit – values that continue to guide and inspire us all.
The Hindu community is a cherished part of our Brent family. To everyone celebrating in Brent and beyond — Happy Diwali and Naya Saal Mubarak.
May this festival bring peace, happiness and prosperity to you and your loved ones.
(The author is a British Labour Party politician who is member of parliament for Brent East.)
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